Understanding Forgiveness and Boundaries

📖 Introduction

Forgiveness is one of the most profound and challenging aspects of the Christian walk. It is both a command and a gift—an act that frees the heart from bitterness and restores peace. Yet, believers often wrestle with how forgiveness looks in real life, especially when someone has deeply hurt them. One frequent question is whether cutting off contact with a person who has harmed you is itself a refusal to forgive.

Is it unforgiveness to set boundaries or end relationships that have caused pain? Can we forgive and still choose no-contact? This 7-day study explores the biblical foundations of forgiveness, the heart of Jesus, and the wisdom of healthy boundaries. You will be encouraged to reflect deeply on the difference between forgiving someone and continuing to walk closely with them. Through Scripture and devotion, we will learn that forgiveness is a release of offense in the heart, while no-contact can be a loving and protective choice. This study will help you discern the Spirit's guidance in times of relational pain.

Faithful forgiveness is not always easy, but it is life-giving. It is rooted in the example of Christ, who forgave even those who crucified Him. At the same time, God calls us to be wise as serpents and innocent as doves, which means we must know when to protect our emotional and spiritual well-being. Join this journey to deepen your understanding of forgiveness and the grace to know when setting boundaries is a healthy response, not unforgiveness. May this study bring healing, clarity, and peace to your heart as you navigate the tension between forgiveness and no-contact.